Embracing Introverted Intuition

I often feel disconnected in a world that largely favors social acceptance. But what does it truly mean to be me? Who cares about my views and experiences? I deeply know the essence of my inner self, uncovered the pains that come with life and I am sharing how I made it here.

Understanding Behaviors

Introversion is a personality trait characterized by a preference for less stimulating environments. Unlike extroverts (I say the crowd) who thrive in bustling social settings, introverts often find energy in solitude, needing quiet time to recharge after social interactions. I heard the term anti social but I just don't relate to many.

Introverts tend to favor deep, meaningful conversations over casual small talk. They often find joy in intimate gatherings or one-on-one discussions instead of large parties. Remember, introversion isn’t a flaw; it’s simply a different way of relating to the world.

Maybe a large portion of this trait is just me being isolated at young pivotal years of my life.

It’s essential to address the stereotypes surrounding introversion. I just think its deep thinking, self reliance and also a level of self accountability. Many believe introverts are shy, standoffish, or even weird. Such misconceptions can lead to misunderstandings and pressure to conform to social standards. I prefer to study my flaws, my habits, my thought process and every action I make daily. As I grow older I have studied the impact of my emotions and how they changed my brain especially very traumatic events. I can write life changing events for what feels like a lifetime..

I can enjoy social interactions but usually feel more comfortable in isolation. I have had some tell me I have a personality disorder and even called bipolar. I can embrace all the titles and wear it with a smile. I mean all of my behavior is highly calculated so I just think I'm a genius.

The Strength of the Mind

Introverts are reflective and analytical, making them excellent problem solvers. They frequently take time to think things through before sharing, which can lead to unique insights. For instance, some of the most innovative ideas in technology, such as those from renowned introverts like Bill Gates, emerge from deep contemplation rather than spontaneous brainstorming. I have learned my creativity is bottled when I spend to much time engaging in things other than my own ideas. I work the jobs that pay the bills but have tried to take a few minutes at the end of a day to reflect deeply on my interactions. Did I do the right thing? I shouldn't of said that!, countless thoughts replay like a movie. I like to say its natural conscience but also God working on me like I'm clay.

Great Senses

Introverts tend to excel in listening. This is a critical skill in both personal and professional relationships. Their focus on others enables them to catch subtle cues in conversation, body language and small details. Research shows that effective listening can lead to better employee engagement, which directly contributes to a company’s success. Introverts' natural aptitude for this skill enhances workplace dynamics and strengthens relationships. I notice when I'm not operating at 100%, when the body gives me cues. I notice when routines are broken and I don't follow natural instinct. When I'm tired and need sleep, when I'm hurt and need space. I have another side that finds joy in everything. Work comes easy because I get paid to learn daily and problem solve and pick the long list of things to prioritize.

Highly Creative

Many introverts channel their thoughts into creative outlets. Whether they are writing novels, painting, or developing software, creativity shines in quieter environments. Take the case of famous introverted authors like J.K. Rowling, who crafted enchanting worlds through deep introspection and imaginative thought. The Harry Potter Dynasty was written from complete solitude. Who would of thought the orphan kid defeated Lord Voldemort. :)

To Stand Alone is Real Strength

Navigating a World Made for the Crowd

Here are some strategies I'm embracing to help:

Relax and Rest

Recognizing energy patterns is a work in progress. While most aim to thrive in social situations, I often feel drained. I aim to restore balance and get more rest. Taking a much needed vacation with out this computer!

Stay True to Self

Pressure to conform to social expectations can be overwhelming. Instead of trying to fit in, I just focus on me. Whether it's opting for a smaller gathering with friends or new one-on-one connections, I aim to prioritize what feels comfortable for me. I am learning to trust my intuition more as I navigate the remainder of my life.

Social Skills

I prefer quieter environments, improving social skills can help in various settings. Setting small goals, like starting a conversation with a neighbor or joining a book club, can boost confidence and social ease over time. I have stepped into places that have felt intimidating in the past. It comes with the journey of adapting.

Authentic Connections

I desire deeper interactions, any human interaction has to have mutual understanding. We have the ability to think differently if we take the time to interact. The social media era gives us the ability to be seen but can easily be overlooked without purpose. My view is the content has to hold value and drive purpose and it stands. The views or shares or friend count is irrelevant.

Trust and Vulnerability

True trust in relationships comes from openness. They say trust fosters a sense of security that allows for vulnerability. My personal experience has been quite the opposite. Trauma bonds and trust issues has allowed some to think my kind nature is foolishness. I always thought walking away showed grit, forgiveness shows compassion. Some may say its cowardice. Most interaction is a quite calculated decision. Vulnerability is a part of growth and it has to be experienced.

Share Experiences

Deep connections enhance mutual understanding. I didn't have friends to rely on in solitary times, or even a real perception of love. I relied on prayer. My close knit relationship with God is like a best friend at all times. Most mornings my prayers is God you just give me the tools and show me the way.

In a world often driven by bold personalities, it’s essential to recognize the value of words. I don't care to be different, the reality is I can create whatever I want from the comfort of my home and see how its accepted. I am not afraid of failure because I'm not aiming to accomplish anything other than sharing. I'm already past anything my 14 year old mind could have imagined.

Self-expression is powerful for introverts. Whether through writing, painting, or music, discovering mediums that resonate can provide an outlet for thoughts and feelings that may not be easily spoken out loud.

Speak Your Truth

Don’t hesitate to share your perspective, even if it's quieter than others. Introverts can offer fresh insights that foster thoughtful discussions. Speaking up—regardless of volume—can empower and affirm your place in conversations. My truth is my foundation and if its me talking to just my shadow well I'm good to go.

Embracing Change

Being an introvert is not just about enjoying quiet moments; it is about embracing a different worldview that adds value to society. With strengths like deep thinking, active listening, creativity, and keen observation, introverts I will impact this world in remarkable ways.

So, next time you see a quiet person out, ignoring social norms, take a moment to appreciate the quiet nature. If you don't embrace self you will always seek validation in places it wont be found. That's purpose to me.